At the heart of every healthy, fulfilling relationship lies the unshakable knowing that we can trust one another with the care of our whole well-being. Yet most of us arrive into our relationships with triggers, traumas, and old patterning that can make this kind of intimacy challenging.

With In Each Other’s Care, renowned psychotherapist Dr. Stan Tatkin explores all of the common complaints and conflicts we encounter in our relationships—money, time, chores, sex, kids, betrayal, decision-making, and more—providing practical tools, case studies, sample scripts, and key insights on how to navigate even the most contentious topics with understanding and respect.

Leaning on his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks the root causes of our struggles with humour and compassion. “When we understand how our attachment styles, nervous systems, and unique backgrounds impact our interactions,” he teaches, “we become empowered to change the way we relate with our partners instead of just wishing things were different.”

Written for both therapists and couples alike, In Each Other’s Care is the most comprehensive guide to relationship challenges available. Whether you’re tired of little misunderstandings, have lost that “spark,” or are in full-on crisis mode, this book will help you return to love.

Illustrated by: Lin Chen