According to the author, games refers to all of the things that we do when we interact with people. Frames refer to our mental Understandings, beliefs, values, expectations, and comprise the rules of the game. It=s your mental and emotional frames that determine your thoughts and feelings of love, about love and loving, and about all of the facets that affect love. Games Great Lovers Play will expose the old games that don=t work and invites the reader into some new ones that will powerfully enhance a loving relationship.